My marriage dissolved due to circumstances out of my control and for the protection of my daughter I had to leave.
A few years later, my daughter is now an adult, I'm mid 40s, and have moved in with my new partner.
I only found Christ through the Catholic Church about 6 years ago, I was raised in a non-religious household/family.
If my new partner and I are in a relationship that we both want long term, have merged our lives, families, and finances etc together, am I able to take communion?
He was raised Presbyterian and has only returned to his faith since meeting me. I have tried the Presbyterian church but it's not for me.
HI Kirsty,
Thank you for sharing your situation.
I just have a few questions as every situation is different..
Were you married in the Catholic Church? Since you mentioned that you only found Christ in the Catholic Church about six years ago, and your daughter is now an adult, I assume your marriage happened before you became Catholic. Was this the case? If your marriage was outside the Church and has since ended, have you considered whether it might be possible to marry again within the Catholic Church?
Were you already baptised as a Catholic? Baptism and confirmation is a crucial sacrament, and it is required before receiving Holy Communion.
I would strongly advise you to speak with a priest. He can help guide you through your unique situation with kindness and understanding. You might explore whether you and your partner could take steps towards marriage in the Church. Ultimately, the sacrament of Holy Communion is a profound union with Christ, preparing us for our ultimate union with Him in Heaven.
A priest will be able to offer you the support and guidance you need on this path, and it could be a beautiful journey for both you and your partner.